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SmCtx
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Advice? Help?

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I'm 18 & i live in a small town in the North of England, I am a UK size 16-18, which is around 14-16 in U.S sizes.
I smoke & I drink alot of alcohol, when I drink, I drink alot.
Am I right to believe alcohol affects your weight dramatically?
I do not buy own food as I still live at home & Dad likes to opt for the easy, frozen, unhealthy food.

I don't get alot of exercise, the only exercise I get is cleaning the house, dancing, , shopping & walking to friends' houses & so on..
What does anybody think would be the best way to loose weight for kind of lifestyle?

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Thanks in advance everybody,

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Post by jesshowe_24 »

Well first off to really want to lose weight it's a complete mind change as well as lifestyle change your going to have to give up a lot of stuff to lose weight...

When your Drinking heavy your not going to lose weight there are over 100 cals in just one beer..... Soda also has a lot of Cals and Surgars... H20 ALL THE WAY... and Drinking and Smoking isnt really good for your body over all!!!

Second can you ask your dad to buy healthy things for you to eat like chicken breasts, veggies, fruit, healthy snack bars ect.??? I sure he loves you and if your in this lifestyle change I'm sure he'll respect that right?

Third excercise well you're going to have to put more effort maybe join a gym or get some work out video's or even Youtube has work out tips and videos ect....

Last thing! Get a support group! Friends are great for that they can go with you to work out... ect....


Like I said this is a complete lifestyle change you have to want it really really bad to make yourself do it cause it's alot of work but it's sooooooooooo worth it!!

Hope this helps somewhat! :-)

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Post by fitoverforty »

yes, I know for a fact (and past personal experience) that alcohol affects your weight (and many other things) dramatically.

following excerpt taken from:
http://www.infoscotland.com/alcohol/dis ... ntent.show&

Alcohol, weight gain and nutrition

There are almost 200 calories in a large glass of red wine!

At 7 calories per gram, alcohol is stuffed with more calories than many foods. That's just for the alcohol content, mind you – any sugar in drinks comes on top of that.

Added to this, alcohol stimulates our appetite but reduces our self-control, making it easy to eat too much – so drinking could be a much greater source of weight gain than you suspected.

Someone who drinks heavily may be over-weight and yet malnourished, replacing food with alcohol. What's more, once alcohol has damaged the liver, the body can't process the food we eat properly. This means less essential nutrients for our bodies to use.


I do not judge anyone for their choices they make, we all choose the path we take in life. You are young and may not understand (or realize that you should) the long term effects of the life you are choosing to live. PLEASE take another look at what you are asking:
Smctx wrote:What does anybody think would be the best way to loose weight for kind of lifestyle?
answer would be to lose the lifestyle. I don't mean that in a offensive way. I look at your profile pics and I am transported back to a time in life where I and many of friends (many who are no longer with me on this earth) walked a similar path....and I can tell you for absolute certainty that it will not end without you reaching a point either through illness or tragedy, "rock bottom" to wake up to the senselessness of it all. I would hate to see anyone have to get to that point.
The fact that you have reached out here is a HUGE encouraging step you have made. I am proud of you for that :D
You are a beautiful young woman with unlimited potential to become whatever it is you desire, don't limit yourself.
If you want to lose weight, you have to get control of your life, not let outside influences (friends, family) continue to pave your path for you.
Excessive drinking and smoking will never help you to become healthier and there is no healthy diet for you to try while you continue to do the other.
You have to get real and look at it with clear eyes. There are alot of helpful folks here who through their own experiences with smoking, or weight gain, or exercise issues that have OVERCOME these things and know from experence how to help you, that can and will help you.
There are alot of ways to improve. First begin to exercise, just doing the standards will help alot (sit ups, push ups, pull ups, jumping jacks, daily walking, stretching, etc.)If you are constrained to eating what your dad brings home, then encourage him to buy healthier versions of frozen foods. maybe you could go with him and pick out healthier options.
Please don't give up, or take offense to anything I have said, I just want to help you see that you have all the tools it takes to lose weight and get healthy, and with a few changes in your life, you will have success.
Good luck to you! :D
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Post by pinkNina »

Girlll, I speak from experience when I say this...you DEF need to lose the alcohol. In college i ate pretty healthy even worked out some, but the alcohol was killer. I gained a good 30 pounds just from drinking so much, and then getting the drunk munchies also, not to mention the horrible affects alcohol has on your body. I became serious about weightloss-- Cut the drinking out, hit the gym 5 days a week, and ate healthier alternatives to a "college students" lifestyle. You can do it!! Just like these lovely ladies have said see if you can get your dad to buy some healthy foods and start there...maybe hell even want to join in with you!!!

Good luck, you can do it!!!!!! :D
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