Is this enough Cardio
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Nokie,
Un-flippin' believable! I had this one guy at the gym bugging me and saying I was doing it all wrong and muscles on "chicks" are not attractive.
After a couple weeks of trying to be polite and realizing he was not gonna quit with the ridiculous suggestions he had for me, I just flat out told him something like this...."Look, I would say I appreciate your advice but seeing that all I witness you doing is walking on a treadmill, you have absolutely no clue what the hell your talking about so if you don't mind...you do your thing and I'll do mine". And by the way...if coffee and dunkin' doughnuts is what you consider a "healthy snack" (he told me he had this every morning because the sugar and caffeine made him work out harder) that explains the "spare tire" you been bitchin' about everytime you feel the need for conversation. Then he developed an attitude that I was a real bitch (as it's a small gym and word gets around) but quite frankly I really don't care what he thought. The next couple weeks I saw him "trying to start lift weights and that lasted about as long as I could say..."told you so". I no longer see him at the gym...thank God! Loser.
Just ignore him and do your own thing girl
Un-flippin' believable! I had this one guy at the gym bugging me and saying I was doing it all wrong and muscles on "chicks" are not attractive.
After a couple weeks of trying to be polite and realizing he was not gonna quit with the ridiculous suggestions he had for me, I just flat out told him something like this...."Look, I would say I appreciate your advice but seeing that all I witness you doing is walking on a treadmill, you have absolutely no clue what the hell your talking about so if you don't mind...you do your thing and I'll do mine". And by the way...if coffee and dunkin' doughnuts is what you consider a "healthy snack" (he told me he had this every morning because the sugar and caffeine made him work out harder) that explains the "spare tire" you been bitchin' about everytime you feel the need for conversation. Then he developed an attitude that I was a real bitch (as it's a small gym and word gets around) but quite frankly I really don't care what he thought. The next couple weeks I saw him "trying to start lift weights and that lasted about as long as I could say..."told you so". I no longer see him at the gym...thank God! Loser.
Just ignore him and do your own thing girl
Total loser. You should have said body is more attractive than your bloated pooch. I worked hard to get body, how hard did you work to get yours?
If he'd said you're being a total bitch, you could have said, well that's the problem with us females, we tend to behave in a bit of an anti-social way, to men who treat us like we're second rate.
It's the same old thing though. People who don't lift heavy, and don't live in that world properly, often make up the majority of the people, who talk crap about women like you, because they don't do even one tenth of the training you do, and have no understanding of how hard it is.
What you did to become the person you are now, was a beautiful thing, and an inspiring thing as well, and you're definitely a rolemodel, far more than any fat dick, so ou shouldn't ever have to justify yourself, especially not to someone like that.
The way you look doesn't make you any less of a Lady, because it's your attitude and image I.E. the way you present yourself, that make you a Lady, and you should never stop being proud o what you achieved.
People like that have nothing to be proud of, for being quitters, and chauvanistic ignoramouses.
If he'd said you're being a total bitch, you could have said, well that's the problem with us females, we tend to behave in a bit of an anti-social way, to men who treat us like we're second rate.
It's the same old thing though. People who don't lift heavy, and don't live in that world properly, often make up the majority of the people, who talk crap about women like you, because they don't do even one tenth of the training you do, and have no understanding of how hard it is.
What you did to become the person you are now, was a beautiful thing, and an inspiring thing as well, and you're definitely a rolemodel, far more than any fat dick, so ou shouldn't ever have to justify yourself, especially not to someone like that.
The way you look doesn't make you any less of a Lady, because it's your attitude and image I.E. the way you present yourself, that make you a Lady, and you should never stop being proud o what you achieved.
People like that have nothing to be proud of, for being quitters, and chauvanistic ignoramouses.
Gosh… what a dickhead!!! – f-ing loser for sure!
Before I continue… I want to THANK everybody for your inputs…
A little update on the guy… So, Friday.. weight day.. I saw him again…
I kept Ipod on and continued training as usual.
Then he sat next to me and started a conversation.
I told him… I’m sorry I have a short time in the gym and really need to concentrate.
He then left me alone for a bit then came back talking to me again!
Next thing I know he asked me who I was living with… I told him with fiancé.
Then he got all surprise about it and said.. You look like you’re only 18-19 years old…
Then he said.. You’re lucky you’re not actually married yet…
because it’s better to give yourself options to look around for someone better….
Then he continued and asked what nationality is fiancé…
I told him we are not the same and only speak English to each other.
Then he went off saying negative things about NOT being the “sameâ€
Before I continue… I want to THANK everybody for your inputs…
A little update on the guy… So, Friday.. weight day.. I saw him again…
I kept Ipod on and continued training as usual.
Then he sat next to me and started a conversation.
I told him… I’m sorry I have a short time in the gym and really need to concentrate.
He then left me alone for a bit then came back talking to me again!
Next thing I know he asked me who I was living with… I told him with fiancé.
Then he got all surprise about it and said.. You look like you’re only 18-19 years old…
Then he said.. You’re lucky you’re not actually married yet…
because it’s better to give yourself options to look around for someone better….
Then he continued and asked what nationality is fiancé…
I told him we are not the same and only speak English to each other.
Then he went off saying negative things about NOT being the “sameâ€
I was just gonna offer the same thing. I may be small but so is dynamite.
Ok this is what you do. You tell the manager as soon as you next go in and tell them as soon as he next approaches you, you will let them know so they can take him off the gym floor and give him a talking to.
Also write to gym head office so that its on record if it gets worse and the manager is rubbish and you can get his membership cancelled.
And lastly next time he comes near you, tell him in no uncertain terms to get the hell away from you before you scream perv at the top of your lungs. trust me all the big guys will come running!!!
Ok this is what you do. You tell the manager as soon as you next go in and tell them as soon as he next approaches you, you will let them know so they can take him off the gym floor and give him a talking to.
Also write to gym head office so that its on record if it gets worse and the manager is rubbish and you can get his membership cancelled.
And lastly next time he comes near you, tell him in no uncertain terms to get the hell away from you before you scream perv at the top of your lungs. trust me all the big guys will come running!!!
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