I'm new here. I've been on diet for a while, I started at 165 lbs and I am at 134 lbs now (aiming for about 130 lbs). I'm a 5'7" (7.5" rather) female, 35 yo, I was always a very skinny person until I hit America. (I used to be at about 110 in teens, and went up to about 121 lbs in college). I was never fat, until some good years ago when I started eating like a pig and over the years I ended up to 165 lbs and looked really fat. (I'm a very small frame, I have very small bones, and I don't have a muscular built). But after I started this diet / exercise routine, I noticed I got some more shape in arms (which were previously like 2 sticks), I can see a lot of changes, however, I still have kind of lots of fat on tighs and (LOTS). I don't want to be too skiny either. I read on different websites about the ideal weight for a small frame, it starts at around 122 - 132 lbs (for height/weight). I would like to stop at about 130 (the most 128) but look fit. What should I do????? I want to reduce the fat I still have and built in its place a little muscle. But no matter what I do I cant' gain much muscle, it's built I guess... How heavy should the weights be in order for me to gain muscle and how many calories a day should I eat? (while dieting I did lift weights 8lbs dumbells for upper body, and about 25 lbs barbell), and did cardio ( I exercise most of the days 5-6 days). I started diet with 1400 cal a day and increased it to 1600 cal a day. So.... the question is....
should I first lose last few lbs of fat until I get to 130 or 128 and then increase the calories to maybe 2200 ( resting metabolic rate is around 1331 cal )and do less cardio and more weight lifting? I've been reading a lot about this... but I wouldn't like to gain muscle and too much fat along with it... Any help? I want legs and to look nice and fit and not distorted by the damn fat but I also don't want to be too skinny like a stick. Or maybe in time with exercise and healthy diet, body will little by little change and get a different shape?
Any suggestion is appreciated!
Thanks!
