I am on nights as well... 6PM to 6AM...Been here for nearly 6 years... Sleeping can be an issue..But I have to agree big problem is with eating habits...Sometimes I can control myself, other times no..In particular holidays when there seems to constantly be something sweet brought in over here

Hey, I am new to this forum too... DH is always the inspiration to me..he is overweight, and diabetic..So, that is all the inspiration he needs...Perhaps just sit down and talk to your boyfriend and see if there is a particular reason / thing keeping him outta the gym..Maybe then you could kinda go ...