Hi Nokie! Thanks for you suggestion, you made a lots of sence! I appreciate that! And yes that true that now that she has lost all her weight she is really into herself... its ridiculous! Like i said before she use to be a nice person i really never hang around with her i usually stay alone i like it that way....but that really started with the 50 thousand $ she had from her dad and an other 30 thousand after from when he died a while ago now she just receive the money and her weight lost! To tell you the true maybe she was like that before because she use to have a good friend they even went for holiday together and stuff and go for coffee with her and back then me (for her i was a no body) now she lots her friend and i think i know why now ) well she want to come with me... i did not know she was like that in the begening but now i know it that for sure!Nokie173 wrote:There’s always gotta be one of those people in the office. Unfortunately mine... there’s way more than enough of them. I’m happy I distance myself from them. Its funny how they somehow seem to be “best of friends” when they are together but once one of them turn around…. BAM… Shit talking happens! (I mean, if you’re really friends, why are you talking shit about each other to other people?)
They talk about everything. How fat/overweight people are ugly and degusting looking. What this/that person wears, who is good looking in the office and who they are sleeping with… etc… All stupid stuff.
They probably talk about me too but you know what? I don’t give a shit about it.Why? I’m working there to make a living… I have own personal problems and DO NOT need to associate with stupid pity bitches who thinks they are all that because they dress slutty at work! Who cares if they are 105lbs or less, they maybe good looking (I guess…
They always ask me to go out for lunch, I say NO (I have own lunch). They always want to take breaks with me, I tell them I have errands to do. They want to do Happy Hours with me, I tell them I don’t drink and have to go to the gym. They want to go to the gym with me, I tell them… I like to workout alone and like to go to the weights section!
Nowaday… I just say Hi and Bye to them….. I hear stories about their dramas in the office from other people... but you know what? I don’t care because it has nothing to do with me!
Point is… If you want drama free… distant yourself. Some people change for the better or for the worse. Maybe she had been sad and had low self esteem when she was overweight. Now she is getting hit on b/c of the way she looks… She got more self confident… now she is just conceited. She will learn her own lesson when she doesn’t have anybody.
If she was really a friend and I really like her and know she is a good person. I would be frank with her and tell her she is a bitch ever since she lost the weight! But if I don’t like her and don’t care what she do with her life…I would just mind own business and avoid her and wouldn’t let her get in to skin and make life miserable.
Good Luck with whatever you do.
P.S : Sorry for using such foul words in one post.
To be honest right now she is on holiday and i go for coffee alone and i love it ... i feel so peaceful i listen music, grab a coffee and go for a walk, i notice now that when i am with her i am really stress out because all she want to talk is about guy's guys guy she foul around with or married men... what ever i don't want to heard about it... i told her that too but she does not get it that it does not intereste me...SO I THINK I WILL DO WHAT YOU DO !!!!
And dont worry about the foul words! that ok!
