Thank you so much for your advice! The separation was a long awaited blessing: kids wanted out as badly as I did. They unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on how you look at it) have a mother who wanted an amicable split and trusted the ex to do what needed to be done and he dragged his feet FO...

Hi! I'm a new member and would like any advice you can give me. I'm 5'1'' and weigh about 130 lbs. I'll turn 44 (yikes) this month. I used to be in awesome shape. I had always walked or done some kind of physical exercise since I was a teenager. I was even one of the lucky ones to went through a twi...