thanks for that. I really mean it...I'm looking for ideas because I've tried many..unfortunately, including that one! :( For the last several years, I took that advice, and largely was hands off unless she requested input or direction. The unfortunate result was her heart attack. I'm at the point wh...

yes and yes. Not trying to be difficult...she says she's trying hard during the day, and I see her doing well....oatmeal for breakfast, reasonable lunch, usually a lean cuisine, etc. but I know she sneaks in snacks and other things when I'm not looking. Not kidding....like living with an alcoholic. ...

i need help! I am 41 years old and very active. wife is 42 years old, and not. She has wrestled with her weight and self-esteem since before our marriage, but got worse after we had kids (3 wonderful kids!). Looking at our life and relationship, we are extremely happy. I make her laugh. She makes me...